j\u00e6ja, \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 styttast \u00ed j\u00f3lin. \u00c9g var alveg \u00e1kve\u00f0in \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feetta yr\u00f0i rolegt advent en svo var n\u00fa vist ekki. \u00dea\u00f0 var en\u00fe\u00e1 svo miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 gera \u00ed vinnunni hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r og var \u00e9g bara \u00ed dag a\u00f0 lj\u00faka vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara yfir si\u00f0ustu verkefnin fyrir fr\u00edi\u00f0. En \u00fea\u00f0 b\u00e6tti ekki st\u00f6\u00f0unni a\u00f0 fyrst var \u00e9g (sm\u00e1) veik en svo veiktist Einar, hann f\u00e9kk flensunni og stelpurnar fylg\u00f0i b\u00e1\u00f0ar samt\u00edmis bara 2 d\u00f6gum seina. \u00deetta var n\u00fa meira stand hj\u00e1 \u00feeim en verrst var, hva\u00f0 \u00feau voru \u00f6ll lengi a\u00f0 n\u00e1 s\u00e9r, \u00feetta t\u00f3k eiginlega 2 vikur allt saman. En fyrir \u00fatan \u00feetta gengur bara vel hj\u00e1 okkur.<\/p>\n
Eva D\u00f3ra er svo rosalega skemmtileg manneskja. J\u00fa, h\u00fan er d\u00e1liti\u00f0 miki\u00f0 fr\u00e9k stundum og \u00fdtin og reyni og reyni eins og h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 finna \u00fat hvar m\u00f6rkin okkar eru. Og h\u00fan f\u00e6r a\u00f0 vita ef h\u00fan gengur of langt, enginn spurning. Svo \u00feegar h\u00fan er sk\u00f6mmu\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 setur h\u00fan upp algj\u00f6rlega „greyi\u00f0 \u00e9g, \u00e9g var\u00f0 sk\u00f6mmu\u00f0 fyrir EKKERT“ og h\u00fan kann sk\u00f3 \u00e1 drama! Sem betur fer erum vi\u00f0 v\u00f6n…… En verrst er \u00feegar h\u00fan er \u00e1 moti okkur til a\u00f0 vera \u00e1 moti e\u00f0a ef hun byrjar a\u00f0 \u00f6skra og gr\u00e1ta ef h\u00fan f\u00e6r ekki alveg strax \u00fea\u00f0 sem h\u00fan vill. \u00de\u00e1 missir h\u00fan s\u00e9r alveg, gr\u00e6tir \u00ed h\u00e1stum t\u00f3num, \u00fea\u00f0 rennur \u00far nefi\u00f0 og munni\u00f0 hennar a\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00fearf eiginlega skipta um b\u00f3l \u00e1 eftir. H\u00fan l\u00e6tur s\u00e9r algj\u00f6rlega detta „ofan \u00ed gr\u00e1ti\u00f0“ – \u00e9g get ekki or\u00f0a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ruvisi. \u00c9g hef aldrei s\u00e9\u00f0 barn gr\u00e1ta eins botnlaus og h\u00fan en h\u00fan gr\u00e6tur ekki bara, h\u00fan ver\u00f0ur stundum rei\u00f0 um lei\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki alltaf einfalt a\u00f0 h\u00f6ndla \u00feetta og er \u00e9g oft a\u00f0 hugsa hvar h\u00fan l\u00e6r\u00f0i \u00feetta e\u00f0a betur sagt: var\u00f0 hun \u00e1\u00f0ur a\u00f0 n\u00f3ta \u00feetta a\u00f0fer\u00f0 til a\u00f0 f\u00e1 allavega sm\u00e1 athygli?
\nEn oftast er h\u00fan bara s\u00e6t og brilliant og skemmtileg. J\u00fa, h\u00fan gr\u00e6tur stundum botnlaus en jafn botnlaus getur h\u00fan hl\u00e9gi\u00f0 og gerir \u00fea\u00f0 mj\u00f6g gjarnan. \u00dea\u00f0 er varla h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 standa \u00fev\u00ed, \u00feetta er algj\u00f6rlega smitandi.
\nH\u00fan er hjartago\u00f0 stulka en ekki me\u00f0 allt of stort hjarta. En skapi\u00f0 dugar alveg fyrir fullvaxin karlmann. M\u00e9r finnst alltaf svo gaman a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 hana a\u00f0 labba alsber um h\u00fasi\u00f0, sj\u00e1 \u00feennan litla, mj\u00f3a kropp og hv\u00e9 \u00e1kve\u00f0in h\u00fan hreyfir sig, \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9st a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er miki\u00f0 kraftur \u00ed henni og skap. \u00deetta fer varla saman, dukkuleg \u00fatlit hennar, litli l\u00edkaman og st\u00f3ra skapi\u00f0 og kraft. Algj\u00f6rlega kraftaverk \u00feessi dama. Eitt er n\u00fa \u00feegar viss: \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur aldrei lei\u00f0inlegt me\u00f0 henni og h\u00fan \u00e1 eftir a\u00f0 kosta okkur svo nokkrar svefnlausar n\u00e6tur \u00feegar h\u00fan kemur \u00e1 „\u00feennan“ aldur.
\n\u00dea\u00f0 er rosalega gaman a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 stelpurnar a\u00f0 leika s\u00e9r saman. Oft er Eva D\u00f3ra a\u00f0 herma eftir \u00d6nnu Xing og \u00feegar Anna Xing kemur og skammast \u00ed m\u00e9r e\u00f0a segir eitthva\u00f0, \u00fe\u00e1 kemur sekundu seina s\u00fa stutta og reynir a\u00f0 segja \u00fea\u00f0 sama me\u00f0 s\u00f6mu einlagningu og st\u00f3ra systur – og svo \u00e1 ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 halda andliti\u00f0 og hl\u00e6ja ekki!<\/p>\n
Anna Xing er svo rosalega a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00f3skast n\u00fana og l\u00edka a\u00f0 breytast. Hugsi\u00f0 ykkur, leiksk\u00f3lakennararnir s\u00f6g\u00f0u okkur \u00e1 foreldrarfundinu a\u00f0 Anna Xing er farin a\u00f0 r\u00edfast vi\u00f0 hin b\u00f6rn, er a\u00f0 tala \u00e1 moti og l\u00e6tur ekki lengur endalaus va\u00f0a yfir sig, s\u00e9rstaklega ekki af Lili. \u00deetta voru gle\u00f0ifr\u00e9ttir fyrir okkur og syna \u00fer\u00f3skan. \u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka svo skondi\u00f0 a\u00f0 allir tala um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 h\u00fan hefur vaxi\u00f0 undanfarin m\u00e1nu\u00f0in. Sta\u00f0reyndin er s\u00fa, a\u00f0 h\u00fan hefur eiginlega vaxi\u00f0 ekkert sl. 6 m\u00e1nu\u00f0in en greynilega hefur h\u00fan r\u00e9tt svo \u00far s\u00e9r og vaxi\u00f0 andlega og \u00feetta s\u00e9st. H\u00fan finnur sj\u00e1lfan sig svo miklu betur n\u00fana, veit hvar h\u00fan stendur og hva\u00f0 h\u00fan vill e\u00f0a vill ekki – og \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e6r \u00e9g sk\u00f3 a\u00f0 heyra \u00feetta. Stundum er \u00e9g sk\u00f6mmu\u00f0 bak og fyrir me\u00f0 algj\u00f6rega alv\u00f6rusv\u00edp og jafnvel M\u00cdNUM or\u00f0um og \u00fearf verulega taka mig til til a\u00f0 hl\u00e6ja ekki, \u00e9g vil \u00fe\u00e1 helst halda henni og kyssa hana af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g er svo stolt a\u00f0 henni og h\u00fan er svo rosalega s\u00e6t \u00feegar h\u00fan skammast svo \u00ed m\u00e9r og reyni a\u00f0 koma or\u00f0um \u00fat \u00far s\u00e9r og \u00fearf a\u00f0 hugsa en j\u00fa, finnur lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 segja \u00fea\u00f0 sem h\u00fan vill segja.
\nAnna Xing er nefnilega rosalega „creative“ a\u00f0 finna lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 koma \u00fev\u00ed fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r sem h\u00fan vill segja \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 henni vantar or\u00f0in. H\u00fan ver\u00f0ur alveg fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt \u00ed Activity seina, svo miki\u00f0 er vist!
\n\u00dea\u00f0 sem Anna Xing gerir gerir h\u00fan a\u00f0 fullum hjarta og vel. H\u00fan gerir aldrei neitt h\u00e1lft e\u00f0a hratt. H\u00fan mundi aldrei viljandi gera eitthva\u00f0 sl\u00e6mt e\u00f0a s\u00e6ra mann. J\u00fa, h\u00fan segir stundum \u00f3satt til a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed gegn sem h\u00fan vill („\u00e9g er b\u00fain a\u00f0 bursta tennurnar r\u00e9tt \u00e1\u00f0an“ …. \u00fey\u00f0ir „\u00e9g \u00e1 eftir a\u00f0 bursta tennurnar“….) en aldrei \u00feegar skiptir m\u00e1li\u00f0. H\u00fan er til \u00ed a\u00f0 deila si\u00f0asta s\u00fakkula\u00f0ib\u00edt og m\u00fan vera s\u00fa fyrsta til a\u00f0 hugga mann ef ma\u00f0ur gr\u00e6tur e\u00f0a \u00e1 b\u00e1tt. M\u00e9r finnst a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef aldrei s\u00e9\u00f0 jafn hjartago\u00f0 manneskja og stundum ver\u00f0ur h\u00fan s\u00e6r\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan er opin og deilir og vill vel en a\u00f0rir ekki.
\nEn sem betur f\u00e9r er h\u00fan n\u00fana l\u00edka a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra a\u00f0 vera rei\u00f0 og \u00e1 m\u00f3ti eitthverju. Ef h\u00fan er rei\u00f0 \u00fat \u00ed mig \u00fe\u00e1 m\u00e1 \u00e9g ekki horfa \u00e1 sj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0, m\u00e1 ekki f\u00e1 nammi, m\u00e1 ekki hitt og \u00feetta. En \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur \u00e1 h\u00fan \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka til a\u00f0 refsa sj\u00e1lfan sig. Kanski gengur eitthva\u00f0 ekki eins og h\u00fan vill og \u00fe\u00e1 vill h\u00fan allt \u00ed einu ekki fara \u00e1 hestbak e\u00f0a svona. Svona „okay, ef \u00fe\u00fa gerir ekki hitt og \u00feetta, \u00fe\u00e1 refsa \u00e9g \u00feig me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fara ekki \u00e1 hestbak“…sem er n\u00fa bara refsing fyrir sj\u00e1lfan sig en ekki fyrir m\u00e9r. \u00c9g hunsa \u00feetta vanalega algj\u00f6rlega og gef henni nokkrar m\u00ednutur, \u00fe\u00e1 kemur \u00feetta aftur \u00ed lag – sem betur f\u00e9r fyrir hana.
\nSvo for \u00e9g me\u00f0 henni \u00ed g\u00e6r \u00e1 ski\u00f0i og h\u00fan er algj\u00f6rlega sk\u00ed\u00f0adr\u00f3ttning. \u00dev\u00edlikir breytingar fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed fyrra. H\u00fan kann a\u00f0 styra f\u00e6turnar miklu betur, h\u00fan veit hva\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00e1 a\u00f0 gera og s\u00e9rstaklega: h\u00fan finnur hva\u00f0 h\u00fan getur og hva\u00f0 ekki. H\u00fan er ekki lengur til \u00ed a\u00f0 fara ni\u00f0ur hva\u00f0a brekku sem er og tel \u00e9g \u00feetta vera miki\u00f0 framf\u00f6r. H\u00fan er bara brilliant og erum vi\u00f0 mj\u00f6g stolt a\u00f0 henni.<\/p>\n
Vi\u00f0 Einar erum oft a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum svo rosalega heppin a\u00f0 f\u00e1 tv\u00e6r svona brilliantar og s\u00e6tar og go\u00f0ar stelpur \u00ed gj\u00f6f!<\/p>\n
Leiksk\u00f3lakennararnir s\u00f6g\u00f0u okkur a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er auglj\u00f3st, a\u00f0 systurnar elska hvor annari en \u00fe\u00e6r geta l\u00edka leiki\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sina eigin vini og eru ekki stanslaust ofan \u00ed hvor annari. \u00de\u00e6r eiga engin svona opin \u00feema saman, ekkert sem \u00fe\u00e6r \u00feurfa kl\u00e1ra sin \u00e1 milli e\u00f0a svona. Okkur Einar finnst \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka. J\u00fa, afbryg\u00f0usemi er alltaf \u00feemai\u00f0 hennar \u00d6nnu Xing enda er \u00fea\u00f0 erfitt a\u00f0 missa einbyrast\u00f6\u00f0u ef ma\u00f0ur hefur hvort sem er ekki fengi\u00f0 nog fyrsta l\u00edfs\u00e1ri\u00f0. En fyrir \u00fatan \u00feetta eru \u00feetta systur sem elska hvor annari – nema ef \u00fe\u00e6r \u00feurfa endilega a\u00f0 pirra hvor annari og sl\u00e1st….<\/p>\n
S\u00e1mur (10) og Kassandra (n\u00e6stum \u00fev\u00ed 12) eru or\u00f0in meira og minna r\u00e1\u00f0s\u00e9tt og taka \u00fea\u00f0 oftast rolega. A\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u er S\u00e1mur en\u00fe\u00e1 vinnuhundur og getur ekki \u00e1n \u00feess veri\u00f0. En inn \u00e1 milli finnst honum gott a\u00f0 sofa og hv\u00edla sig.
\nEn Hexi (6 m\u00e1na\u00f0a) er fr\u00e9kast, forvitnasti, \u00f3\u00feekkasti k\u00f6ttur \u00ed heimi en l\u00edka s\u00fa s\u00e6tasti! \u00cd dag st\u00f6kk h\u00fan fr\u00e1 gir\u00f0inguna ni\u00f0ur og nota\u00f0i baki\u00f0 hans S\u00e1ms sem „millitr\u00f6ppur“ til a\u00f0 koma s\u00e9r ni\u00f0ur….en h\u00fan leyfir stelpunum a\u00f0 drusla me\u00f0 s\u00e9r upp og ni\u00f0ur og mala jafnvel \u00e1 me\u00f0an. Alv\u00f6ru barnak\u00f6ttur en h\u00fan kostar okkur si\u00f0asta taugap\u00fat sem vi\u00f0 eigum eftir….<\/p>\n
Fiskarnir eru \u00ed b\u00farinu s\u00ednu en eru a\u00f0 synda n\u00e1legt botninu \u00feessa daga \u00e1 me\u00f0an vi\u00f0 erum ekki komin me\u00f0 alv\u00f6ru l\u00f3k en Hexi er \u00ed vei\u00f0iskap!<\/p>\n
Og skjaldb\u00f6kurnar eru vonandi lifandi og sofandi undir \u00edsnum \u00ed tj\u00f6rninnu. <\/p>\n
Og j\u00fa, vi\u00f0 Einar erum l\u00edka l\u00edfandi og \u00e1ttum eiginlega skemmtilegt kv\u00f6ld saman a\u00f0 pakki inn j\u00f3lagjafirnar. En oftast situr ma\u00f0ur bara \u00ed sitthvoru horn a\u00f0 vinna langt fram a\u00f0 kv\u00f6ld (allavega \u00e9g) og erum vi\u00f0 alveg \u00e1kve\u00f0in \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 breyta \u00fev\u00ed og taka okkur oftar fr\u00ed um kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 og gera eitthva\u00f0 saman – n\u00fa eigum vi\u00f0 \u00feessi f\u00edna barnap\u00edu \u00ed n\u00e6sta h\u00fas og \u00feetta er okkar t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
j\u00e6ja, \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 styttast \u00ed j\u00f3lin. \u00c9g var alveg \u00e1kve\u00f0in \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feetta yr\u00f0i rolegt advent en svo var n\u00fa vist ekki. \u00dea\u00f0 var en\u00fe\u00e1 svo miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 gera \u00ed vinnunni hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r og var \u00e9g bara \u00ed dag a\u00f0 lj\u00faka vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara yfir si\u00f0ustu verkefnin fyrir fr\u00edi\u00f0. En \u00fea\u00f0 b\u00e6tti ekki […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-318","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-almennt-general","category-dagbok-onnu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/318","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=318"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/318\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=318"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=318"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ax.ulfur.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=318"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}